The Secrets to A Good Relationship or Marriage

Through the Eyes of a Psychic Medium

Love is the one thing we all search for.  Whether consciously or unconsciously, every soul longs for connection – that feeling of being seen, held and truly understood.  The truth is, love is often written into our destiny, but staying in love, growing together and building a meaningful relationship or marriage – takes awareness, soul work and a little magic from the universe.

All relationships and marriages are pre-destined before we are born- yes you’ve probably heard  the saying “meant to be”.

Soul Contracts and Destiny

Relationships are not random – they are destined.  We meet certain people because our souls agreed to do so before we even arrived on Earth.  Some of these connections are with soulmates, others with twin flames, karmic partners or companions from other lifetimes.

But here’s the most important thing to realize:  not all destined relationships are meant to last forever.

Some are here to teach us, challenge us, or awaken us.  Others are meant to walk beside us for the long haul.

The key is recognizing the purpose of the connection – no matter the timeline.

Star Sign Compatibility Matters

Astrology is one of the most powerful tools for understanding the energies at play in a relationship.  While love can blossom between any two signs, certain combinations are more naturally aligned than others.

   Water Signs:  ( Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio ) seek emotional depth and spiritual connection.

   Earth Signs:  ( Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo )  crave stability and loyalty.

   Fire Signs:  ( Leo, Aries, Sagittarius ) need passion, freedom and energy.

   Air Signs:  ( Libra, Gemini, Aquarius ) value communication and intellectual rapport.

When two people truly understand each other’s natural rhythms, desires and differences, it becomes easier to work as a team – rather than against one another.

Growth is Everything

Here is the fundamental truth: people change.

They grow, evolve and transform – or at least, they should.  A strong relationship supports each person’s growth, both individually and as a couple.

When one partner is willing to grow and the other resists change, cracks begin to form.  It doesn’t mean the relationship was wrong – it simply means it may have reached its purpose.

The healthiest relationships are those where both souls are willing to do the inner work, walk through shadows and emerge stronger – together.

Trust your Intuition

So many times, we know when something feels off.  The signs are there.  Spirit whispers through feelings, dreams, sudden insights – even physical sensations.

One of the most empowering things you can do in love is to listen to your own inner voice.

Your soul knows when someone is meant for you and it also knows when it’s time to move on.

Intuition doesn’t lie, trust it- you know it, don’t fight it – follow it.

Clarity Through Reflection

When you are standing at a crossroads in love – unsure whether to stay or go – one of the most helpful tools in this situation is to write things down.  Create two simple lists: one for all the positives in the relationship and the other for all the negatives.  Be honest, not just hopeful.  Look at the balance.  Which list outweighs the other?

Monitor your thoughts on the person,  analyze them, do they come often? or very little? are they good? or bad?

It is very common, when someone is on the verge of leaving, for their mind to suddenly flood with good memories.  This can be a form of emotional self-protection – a way of clinging to what’s familiar.  Being scared of the unknown, is a difficult challenge, but trusting and having faith will always help you.   You will find real clarity when you also honor the reasons you felt called to leave in the first place.

Closing Thoughts

A good relationship isn’t perfect.  But it is soul-deep, transformative and true.

It’s built on trust, growth, spiritual connection, emotional safety and the willingness to walk side by side through life’s lessons.

Love is written in the stars – but we choose how we show up for it.

When two soul’s choose each other, again and again, with open hearts and clear intentions, that is when destiny becomes devotion.